Charlotte
and Emily are cats. They belong to Margaret E. Kuhn, a little old
lady living comfortably in the suburbs of Philadelphia. ‘It’s
lovely here’, sighs Ms Kuhn, serving me with tuna salad and
herbal tea. ‘In the summer we just live on the back porch.
It’s such a pity I’m away so much.’
Last
year Maggie Kuhn travelled 100,000 miles on a schedule that would
quicken the step of the Secretary of State himself. And the purpose
of her journeys was no less political.
‘Wrinkled
radical’ is a label Maggie happily accepts. Aged 76,
she is definitely wrinkled. And her reputation as a radical has
been earned by ten years organising the Gray Panthers. Today, the
Panthers
are a 60,000-strong network of young and old Americans campaigning,
not just against ‘ageism’, but for all kinds of change — from
free medicine to nuclear disarmament.
‘Ageism,’ explains
Maggie, ‘is the stereotyping and discrimination
of people on the basis of age.’ It doesn’t just apply
to the over-sixties. But that is where it hits hardest. The ‘Detroit
Syndrome’ Maggie calls it. ‘Only the newest model
is desirable. The old are condemned to obsolescence; left to
rot like wrinkled babies
in glorified playpens — forced to succumb to a trivial,
purposeless waste of their years and their time.’
The
Panthers argue that ageism is a condition of society that will not
be cured by concentrating on the needs of the elderly
alone. ‘We’re
not hung up on old folks’ issues and we’re not delivering
services like meals on wheels,’ explains Maggie. ‘We’re
trying to find the root causes of the alienation that brings about
the need for those services.’
But
the Panthers still tend to focus on issues that affect the elderly — ‘our
exaggerated needs and our infirmities are levers for social change’ — but
always with an eye to a better deal for everyone. ‘The health
issue is a classic case,’ she says. ‘Health affects everybody — the
unborn and the dying. Change policies on health and you automatically
change attitudes towards ageing’.
The
plight of the elderly is symptomatic of injustice in society as a
whole. The Panthers believe that when these
injustices
have been
addressed a society will have been created in which ageism
disappears automatically.
‘It
began with just six of us,’ Maggie remembers. ‘We decided
we needed some kind of collective project just to keep
us alive after we retired. So we got together to find a responsible
way of using our
new freedom. And we chose the Vietnam War.’
It
was the perfect issue. ‘We met the kids on campus,’ she
recalls. ‘It was so exciting.’ That was over ten years
ago. Now she’s a public figure. ‘I’m humbled, proud
and surprised by the standing ovations.’
Today
the Gray Panthers are convinced that the central issue is preventing
World War III. ‘We’ve got a bloated military budget. The
Reagan Administration are not cutting expenditure — they are
transferring it from things that are human and compassionate to things
that are crass and arrogant. Reagan is a mediocre thinker — a
class B actor at best. And Haig is a paranoid. They don’t have
the transcendence in their spirit to look for peace.’
Maggie’s crusading spirit is richest when it comes to old people’s
feelings about themselves. She accuses the Western world of ‘gerontophobia’ — a
pathological fear of old people and of ageing. The young hate the old
and the old hate themselves. Only the cosmetics industry profits — from
sales of dye for grey hair, makeup to cover brown agespots, and face
lifts for those who can afford them.
‘To
be ashamed of your age is a denial of yourself, of your history’,
argues Maggie, ‘It’s like throwing
away twenty years of your life.’ She wants
people to see ageing in a different light. ‘Life
can begin at 60 if that’s what you want.
The past is prologue. Now is the time to look
forward.’
‘Sort
out your life,’ she argues. ‘Review what you’ve
done and be strengthened by it. You’ve
conquered, you’ve
suffered, you’ve triumphed over suffering.
You’ve healed
yourself of diseases; your broken bones have
mended Your own history fortifies you — don’t
deny your history.’
As
for her own history: ‘I’ve had the best of both worlds,’ she
grins, ‘some fighting jobs and a great love life.’ She
never married — choosing a lifelong career with the church instead.
Now, having nursed her mother and brother on their death beds, the
man with whom she had a secret 15-year love affair is decaying in an
old folks’ home. She no longer visits him — he doesn’t
recognise her.
Today
she holds up her misshapen hands — ‘like a badge’ — and
explains that, although she has survived three bouts of cancer, the
cold weather still aggravates her arthritis. ‘But we have a healing
brain,’ she says. ‘And we must use it.’
Two
members of the Gray Panthers’ executive also have cancer.
One recently completed a three month trip to England. ‘A triumph!’ exclaims
Maggie. ‘Another person would have said "I can’t do
that— I’m going to die".’
Maggie
believes old age should be the time of greatest personal liberation: ‘It’s
the time for the mind and spirit to flourish. The body may be tired
but you can always reach out to new ideas and new ways of thinking.’
And
she works hard to put her beliefs into practice. After buying a pair
of three
storey stucco houses,
she started
sharing with
six others — aged
between 20 and 40 — who pay rent to help maintain their joint
household. ‘We’ve created an alternative family here,’ she
explains, anxious to counter any preconceptions about ‘hippy’ communes, ‘and
I like to think we can replicate it.’
So
part of the house has become a Shared Housing Resource Centre. The
aim is
to change housing
policy and raise
bank loans so
that fewer
old women are left to die alone
in
their decaying houses. ‘But
old people’s attitudes have to change too’ she says — and
tells the story of a friend whose hip operation went wrong and confined
her to a single room in her big old house. ‘She’s so demanding,’ complains
Maggie. ‘If only she’d think of sharing instead of just
saying "take care of me".’
‘You
see, it’s very important that old people get their heads
turned around and reach out to
the young — because the young
and the old are in the same predicament.’ Both
are poor, dependent and seldom
taken seriously. They are kept
out of the workforce, in
conflict with adults and in trouble
with the banks. Young and old
even have the same drug problems: ‘The
pushers are different, but both
are addicts.’
The
Panthers believe that old and young will be the first to
find
a common
interest in
combating ageism.
But the
old have
a special
advantage
in the fight ‘Nobody can tell us to shut up,’ says Maggie. ‘We
can be as radical as we want.’
‘And
there is room for anger. But you must channel your rage. My goal — until
the rigor mortis sets in — is
to do one outrageous thing
every week. Like putting
sequins around my age spots.’
WHEN
Maggie Kuhn and five of her retired friends entered the
room marked ‘Senior
Citizen’ they were horrified by what they found.
All of their new room-males were playing bingo, fishing
for trout
or watching television.
‘This
place is about as lively as a prison.’ observed
one of the newcomers. ‘Like a romper room for adults:
mumbled another. ‘Or a greenhouse for turnips,’ gasped
a third. ‘Is this a mistake?’ someone asked. ‘Perhaps
we were given the wrong room number.’ ‘I don’t
think so.’ answered Maggie. ‘It seems we’ve
been put in the clinker.’
‘But
how can that be? We haven’t committed any crime.
And I don’t know about you, but I certainly
don’t
feel like a turnip.’ ‘Indeed.’ said
Maggie, ‘but
we will all vegetate for sure if we stay in this
place for very long. I suggest we leave — without
delay!’
It
was with despair that Maggie and her friends noticed
that the door was blocked by a guard.
‘Excuse
me sir,’ said Maggie. ‘We would like to
leave.’ ‘Leave?’ replied the
guard, with an expression of intense disapproval
which would have caused
an army of less determined rebels to retreat
in fear. ‘Yes,
sir. The atmosphere in this room is much too
stuffy.’ Maggie
responded. ‘We need some fresh air.’
‘Listen,
lady,’ the guard impatiently explained. ‘Once
a senior citizen, always a senior citizen.
Got it? No-one, absolutely no-one leaves!’
With
this, a buzz of exclamation filled the air. Bingo boards
were left abandoned and trout
were
left dangling
on lines.
Suddenly above the noise of the excited crown
a distinctly new sound was heard. Someone
growled.
Laura
Quinn*

*From ‘Blueprint
far a new age - Gray Panthers: a pamphlet from
Gray Panthers,
3635 Chestnut Street, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 19104.
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When...
When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn’t go, and doesn’t
suit me
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say
we’ve no money for butter
I shall sit down on the pavement when I’m tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick the flowers in other people’s gardens
And learn to spit.
You
can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickle for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and
beermats and things in boxes.
But
now we must have clothes that keep us dry
And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and
read the papers.
But
maybe I ought to practice a little now? So people who
know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.
Poem
by Jenny Joseph, reproduced by kind
permission of John
Johnstone, Author's Agents.
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