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NEW
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THIS
MONTH'S THEME |
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THE
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Life
sentence On
nagging Doin'
wot comes nat'rally Where
there is no hoover Passing
the buck Wages
for housework OCCUPATION:
HOUSEWIFE No
time to spare Sunrise,
sunset Is
he house-trained?
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FROM
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'On what?' 'Housework.' Silence. 'Ironing shirts, cleaning toilets, scrubbing floors?' 'Yes.' 'Hoovering, shopping, cooking, dusting, changing diapers?' 'You got it.' Until here people's reactions were pretty standard. But here they began to deviate. This is the point where smiles started to nudge at the corners of women's mouths. The smiles stretched into grins, then into full-bodied laughter. 'At last. Ammunition!' they said finally, still chuckling. 'Wait till I show it to my husband/lover/flatmate/kids.' Men, on the other hand, were more ambivalent. 'Is this one of those NIs I'll have to hide from Martha?' asked one guardedly, glancing nervously over his shoulder. Others questioned whether the topic of housework was serious enough to merit an entire issue of the magazine. 'After all, it's hardly a matter of life and death', they commented. This last point was easy to answer, as I hope the facts will demonstrate. Women's responsibility for housework is the major reason for inequality between the sexes. That makes this topic very serious indeed. On the other point, though - about hiding it from Martha, or whoever - I was left in a bit of a quandary. Because it was quite clear from the women's reactions that the men's somewhat paranoid responses were justified. The women obviously hoped to use the facts and arguments in the magazine to support their case for more help around the house. That they should still require support of this kind is evidence of the incredible reluctance of even politically astute men to grasp the nettle of domestic work. Yet the benefits for women of being relieved of a proportion of their domestic burden are so enormous that it's difficult to see how men can knowingly withhold such salvation from people they claim to love. But perhaps men's salvation is in the balance too, as Harry Chapin demonstrates: My
child arrived just the other day; I've
since retired, my son's moved away; How about it, brothers? It would make such a huge difference to us all. |
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Debbie
Taylor for the New Internationalist Co-operative |
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Letters
COVER PHOTO:
Barry Lewis / Network |
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'I'm
doing an issue of the NI on housework.' 
