Body blows
In the thick of Zimbabwe's current
turmoil, women with disabilities face hellish prejudice, hunger
and rape. Gladys Charowa bears witness.
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| All together now: Bhutanese refugee children,
some with disabilities, at a disablity support
camp in Nepal. Photo: Howard Davies / Exile
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‘The people
that l looked up to let me down. Being a student I always had
respect for them and counted
on them as my family. I told them all my problems and worries.
At the age of seven I never thought that I would be taken as a
wife by a man of his age, 30 or so. He led me into the act even
though I refused. I was scared and feared for my life. He took
advantage that I am defenceless. I could not report the matter
to anyone, as I did not know whom to trust any more because the
school matron had let him rape me. I was depressed and confused
though I was not alone. There were ten of us that the same teacher
had abused.
‘We finally reported the case and it
was taken to the courts. But as if that was not enough another
schoolteacher raped four of us
from the same group again, just as we returned from testifying
in court. There seems to be no protection for children. In court
we testified facing the teacher.’ Vongai, who is now eight
years old and uses a wheelchair after contracting polio, is a primary
school pupil in a now notorious school in Macheke. The whole court
where she and the other students testified is a male domain, including
the panel of judges. Some of the accomplices, especially the matron
who is alleged to have facilitated the rape of the children by
summoning the rapists and guarding the doors as the crimes took
place, are still walking scot-free. The children have also heard
allegations that high-powered male officials in the province are
committing rape at will and have not been arrested.
Sadly Vongai’s story is not as exceptional
as one might like to think. In Zimbabwe disability is a curse because
society has
made it so, and disabled women and girls are hit particularly hard.
People believe disability is caused by evil. Some communities believe
that it is a result of prostitution, divine punishment and witchcraft.
People with disabilities are viewed as useless, a burden and a
liability. They are automatically abandoned and refused a role
in society.
Women with disabilities are singled out
for particular abuse. In our society, men receive all the honour
for success and women all
the blame for failure. If a woman gives birth to a disabled child,
she is blamed and left to fend for that child on her own. If a
woman becomes disabled at a later stage in life she is abandoned
by her husband for an able-bodied wife. However when the reverse
happens, women will stay in the family to take care of their disabled
husbands.
| Women with disabilities are singled
out for particular abuse. In our society, men receive all
the honour for success and women all the blame for failure |
Even the supposedly enlightened discriminate,
regardless of whether they are women themselves. When I telephoned
a female Executive
Director of an influential and well respected women’s organization
to request an appointment, I got the following reply: ‘We
do not network with people with disabilities. What will the world
say if I am seen having a meeting with you? You have to stay indoors
and ask the Department of Social Welfare to assist you with food.’ Her advice seemed unreal in a country where
disabled people can hardly afford one decent meal a day due to
abject poverty. In Southern
Africa the situation has been exacerbated by the recurrent droughts
of the past five years. Disabled people in Zimbabwe often cannot
afford devices such as wheelchairs, hearing aids, walking sticks,
crutches, etc. Some use wheelbarrows, scotch carts (ox-drawn carts)
and wooden homemade carriers commonly called muchanja (Shona for ‘mobility’).
I underwent a rehabilitation programme along with 18 others in
2001, the year I became disabled. I am now the only person alive.
The rest have died because of pressure sores. If someone can’t
afford a wheelchair and is using a wheelbarrow and doesn’t
have a cushion, what do you expect?
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| Carted around: without wheelchairs outings
become a rarity for these women. Photo: DWSO |
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Spiralling crisis
Inflation continues to rise despite the Government’s efforts
to arrest it with price controls and price freezes. This, obviously,
has serious disability and gender implications. In rural Zimbabwe
a lot of households are female headed as the husbands are employed
in urban areas or have died due to the HIV/AIDS pandemic. This
means the mothers have to fight a lone battle in fending for the
family. They have to scramble and scrounge for food, which is in
short supply in the shops.
In the cities many are living exposed to
the elements as they do not have permanent homes. Homelessness
has worsened with the recent ‘Operation
Murambatsina’ (literally ‘remove dirt’), which
has destroyed several makeshift homes in most urban centres of
the country. It is estimated that over one million people were
left homeless, and about 20 per cent of those are people with disabilities.
Being the poorest of the poor, they could only resort to such so-called ‘shacks
and cabins’.
Veronica is an elderly widow who is chronically
ill. She has three young grandchildren, one with disabilities,
from her dead daughter.
I met her after her home had been destroyed. She had a rosary around
her neck, wore an apron with a picture of the Sacred Heart and
a t-shirt with President Mugabe’s photo. She was running
out of means to survive and was angry at Mugabe. ‘Where will
I go now and how can I take care of this disabled child after losing
my home? I used to treat our President like my father, now look
what the father has done to me.’
| Belief in a myth that having sex with
a disabled woman cures HIV is leading to numerous rapes |
The Roman Catholic Church assists some people
with disabilities, and those living with HIV/AIDS. A Sister of
the Dominican Order
in the capital Harare made these comments: ‘How can the little
ones of this world be brutalized in this way? Their only crime
is that they are poor, they are disabled, they are helpless and
they happen to live in the wrong part of town and in a country
that does not have oil and is not very important to the West.’ One
man told me that he had phoned the Red Cross asking for help but
was informed: ‘It is not a war situation so there is nothing
we can do.’ Most houses in Africa are not adapted for
wheelchair users, who, according to our research, often use their
beds as toilets and
bathrooms as they cannot manœuvre into these small rooms.
Even public buildings lack proper access.
Some traditions and customs in Zimbabwean
culture expose children, particularly girls, to abuse. Practices
like kuzvarira – which
involves swapping the girl child for food to save a starving family – condemns
her to perpetual suffering. She is forced to marry early and is
denied a chance to prepare for her future, for instance by attending
school. The marriage is often to a very old husband and it is mostly
polygamous, making life hell on earth for the young girl.
Prostitution has become another fallback
for many who fail to make ends meet. Hunger knows no dignity and
induces reckless behaviour.
Forced marriages and prostitution put women and girls, including
those with disabilities, in danger of contracting Sexually Transmitted
Infections (STIs). This explains why Zimbabwe is amongst the
countries with the highest HIV/AIDS prevalence ratio on the continent.
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| Single mum and rights campaigner: Gladys Charowa
with her young son. Photo: DWSO |
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Those who do not find themselves in this
predicament may still suffer in different ways. Some are forced
to drop out of school
as resources run dry in the family. Child labour is rampant
in the country and is rising due to food shortages and the recent
homelessness crisis, which was created by the Government. People
with mobility impediments and blind people are now being forced
to die, as they have been removed from the streets where they
used to beg. Cast out
It is very painful to note that most women discriminate against
women with disabilities. Aunts and mothers-in-law are often at
the forefront in blaming a woman who is living with disability
or who has given birth to a child with disabilities. They encourage
their brothers and sons to divorce.
Tatenda, aged 48 years, told us her
story. ‘I was born in
Buhera and had married a man from Mhondoro. My third kid started
having problems when he was six years old. I came with him to Harare
Hospital and he was diagnosed with meningitis.’ The child
developed multiple disabilities and had to come for physiotherapy
on a weekly basis. ‘Commuting from Mhondoro was difficult,
so, in the end, I moved to Harare. I separated from my husband
who could not come to terms with the disability of our child and
was under pressure from his relatives. I lived in a cottage and
my income came from selling vegetables. Now I am living in the
open since my cottage was destroyed. I no longer have any source
of income. I can’t go to the rural areas because my child
is on medication and I also have to attend physiotherapy with him.
I need a place to live and I also want to be allowed to sell vegetables
again.’
Disabled women are vulnerable to HIV
from men claiming to support them, often their husbands,
who take advantage of their wives’ disabilities
and have extra-marital affairs. Once the disabled woman is HIV-positive,
the man sends her away to her parents or relatives to take care
of her until death. He will refuse the responsibility of bringing
HIV into the marriage. A case in point is Mary, who had this to
say: ‘I am a wheelchair user from tuberculosis of the spine
and I now cannot control my bowel and bladder. I have three children
all below the age of 12 years. In 2000 my husband died. Suddenly
after his death, I became ill and went for HIV testing and was
diagnosed HIV positive. His relatives blamed me for causing his
death and they chased the children and me out of the marital house.
I went back to stay with my brother and his wife, who could not
accept me as I am living with disability and am HIV-positive.’
| People with mobility impediments and blind people are
now being forced to die as they have been removed from
the streets where they used to beg |
Belief in a myth that having sex with
a disabled woman cures HIV is leading to numerous rapes.
In 2004 alone the Disabled Women
Support Organisation (DWSO) lost nine of its members to HIV/AIDS
after they were sexually abused. Among the most disheartening cases
is that of a mother who assisted her brother to rape her young
daughter so that his HIV could be cured. This girl died a year
and a half later. The Girl Child Network reports that children
as young as two years are being sexually abused by caregivers or
close relatives who believe in this HIV/AIDS ‘cure’. People with disability are among the
least educated people in Zimbabwean society and can easily
be victimized if they report abuse. Also,
if lodging a complaint meant that the breadwinner were put behind
bars, all the other family members would turn against the accuser.
Disabled people also find the doors
of the Voluntary Testing Centres closed to them. This is
because of the counselling staff’s
attitude towards disability and lack of proper access to the buildings.
Information on HIV/AIDS is not available in Braille or sign language.
We are fighting to be recognized as
human beings. We hope that our goals will drive us out of
the precarious situation we find
ourselves in, and that our rights will be upheld. I have noticed
that to accomplish great things we must not only act but also
dream, not only plan but also believe. Gladys
Charowa is a single mother of two, living with disability
since December 2001 after she damaged her spine in a car accident.
She is the founder of Disabled Women Support Organisation (DWSO)
which works towards physically and economically empowering women
and girls with disabilities.
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